Why I Won't Date Fat Girls . . .

Fat people are physically lazy and mentally weak.

When I saw that picture, I became infuriated! Why? "But diet and exercise are lot of work." -- really? Watching what you eat and exercising is too much work? I find that to be an excuse to be lazy and not take care of yourself. I find that to be an excuse to be weak-minded. I find that to be an excuse to propagate erroneous self-love -- if overweight people truly loved themselves, they would take action to lead a healthier lifestyle, which includes dieting and exercising.

I diet and exercise -- I don't find it difficult at all. I am motivated and determined to be fit, in shape, and look a certain way. Even if it was "a lot of work", why would it matter? Life has challenges and only the weak derail from challenges. Only the weak look for shortcuts and easy way outs.

"She's accepts herself for who she is." Really? That's what you think? That's what you want to convince me to think -- that she's employing self-acceptance? Her weight doesn't look too bad. She is overweight, but what about the people that are morbidly obese? Yes, there is no way that they can look in the mirror and accept that crap!

Overall, I won't date fat girls for a reason and that reason is their mentality -- to them, "dieting and exercise is a lot of work." I find that to be a sign of laziness and weak-mindedness. It's not the weight that's an issue; the weight can always disappear with proper diet and daily exercise. It's the state of mind that's an issue -- the mentality that losing weight is hard or too challenging. The mentality of settling for less. 

I don't believe in settling less. I don't believe in being lazy. I actually value hard work. I can't and won't do it; I won't date fat girls because they are physically lazy and mentally weak.

Maria Kang -- "No Excuse Mom"

I've heard women justify not being in shape because they just had a child. I'm not a woman, but women do tend to blow up while pregnant because they have to eat for two -- that much I know and I can sympathize. Question -- "At what point and time do you shed the pounds after having a child?"


Maria Kang, mother three. Her eldest is three.

In any event, I'm writing this to address anyone that has made an excuse not to exercise -- if this mother of three can look this good, why can't you? What's stopping you from doing jumping jacks? What's stopping you from jogging? What's stopping you from doing crunches? What's stopping you from doing squats? What's stopping you from being in shape? What is your excuse?

Again, I am not a woman, but I am sure it can be a tad bit busy tending to three children with the eldest being three. You can try to come up with every possible reason for why she is able to exercise and you're not. At the end of the day, there's no excuse. We do what is important and if getting in shape was of any significance to you, you'd find the time for fitness.

This woman has motivated me to take my training to another level. It has also encouraged me to socialize with strong-minded, goal-oriented, determined, and physically active people and estrange myself from fitness-lazy people. More importantly, I will not consider being romantically involved with a woman if she isn't into fitness. 

Thank you, Maria Kang being strong-minded and determined. I wish there were more women with your qualities.